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A Church-run home in Hue,
central Vietnam, is helping to stop women aborting their
babies by providing a safe haven for them to have their
children.
Six months ago, Tran Thi Thu Hien (not her real name)
decided to terminate her three-month-old pregnancy after
her boyfriend abandoned her. She was also too scared to
return to her family.
Hien, who worked in a restaurant in Hue, was brought by
a friend
to Hoan Luong home, run by four Daughters of
Our Lady of the Visitation nuns.
There she has been given free food, clothing, health
care and accommodation.
Hien, 20, who is due to give birth soon, said, “I found
peace of mind here.”
The woman from Da Nang city said she spends her days at
the home watering the vegetable garden, raising chickens
and helping to prepare meals.
She is among 10 pregnant women living at the home.
Hien said that after giving birth, she will leave her
baby to the nuns to look after, and return home.
Sister Anna Ho Thi Tuyen told UCA News that the home,
established in 1995, aims to show the women that there
are people who care about them and their unborn
children. Most of the women have no money and were
planning to abort their babies after they were abandoned
by their boyfriends, she added.
Sister Tuyen said the nuns have saved over 300
pregnancies over the past 15 years.
Sister Tuyen, 60, said the women are provided with a
safe and understanding environment, and spend their time
doing exercises, gardening or making clothes. They also
listen to music, watch television or read.
Sister Tuyen said many of the women are students or
low-paid workers from neighboring provinces. They are
afraid of their families’ disapproval of them being
pregnant out of wedlock, she added.
“We try to maintain their dignity by keeping their
pregnancies secret.”
The nun said that after giving birth, the women give
their babies to the nuns so that they can go back to
school, work or get married in the future.
According to Sister Tuyen, the babies are looked after
at a local Church-run center or adopted by Catholic
couples.
Ho Thi Van (not her real name), 17, from Dac Lac
province, said she has been living at the home for five
months.
“I am deeply grateful to the nuns. Without their help, I
would have died,” Van said. She had planned to commit
suicide after she was abandoned by her boyfriend and
failed her college entrance exams.
There are two such Church-run homes in Hue, Thua
Thien-Hue province, serving unwed mothers. The other is
Nguyen Bieu Home where over 200 women have been given
free food and accommodation over the past 12 years.
Abortion is legal in Vietnam to control population
growth, according to Sister Tuyen.
Hue archdiocese’s pro-life group says that 2,000-4,000
abortions are performed each year in the province.
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