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When God created man, he
created them male and female. This divinely instituted
gender differentiation holds the key to the success of
any society or individual. As creatures, it is best for
us to submit to God's design of sexual differentiation
and all that such a differentiation brings into our
lives.
There has been a sustained campaign to erase or minimise
the divinely instituted gender differentiation from both
inside and outside the Church. Those who wish to pretend
that there are no differences between men and women have
for long deployed various arguments to buttress their
position.
The most common among them is the claim that men and
women are equal. Any one who dares to question this
claim is dismissed as a Pre-Cambrian ignoramus. The trap
is a subtle one. Those who claim that men and women are
"equal" do not qualify their statement. In what respect
are a man and a woman equal? Is it an equality in terms
of their strengths and abilities? Or does it mean that
they both are "equal" before the law - equally liable to
prosecution if found guilty? Or, is male-female
"equality" merely a political one - by which they both
have "equal" political rights?
An unqualified statement "men and women are equal" is as
meaningful as the statement "apples and oranges are
equal." Political and legal equalities are guarenteed by
law in civil society. Therefore, any one who wishes to
highlight the differences between the sexes, if he or
she is not specific, falls prey to the designs of those
who cannot think beyond political or legal terms. Men
and women aren't equal either physically or emotionally.
Gender differences aren't superficial; they are etched
on every cell, down to the level of chromosomes.
Those who pretend to know everything dismiss "gender
roles" as another flawed human invention. The task of
bearing and rearing children, they would say, was given
to women by oppressive men! And yet, none of these
'liberated' men or women have been able to modify their
bodies in order to reassign or alter reproductory
functions! Will they be able to produce altered men or
women -- something akin to "seedless grapes"?
What about the task of bread-winning? The so-called
enlightened women would ask, "Why should that be the
exclusive preserve of men? Let us also do it and prove
our mettle." That God, in the garden of Eden, assigned
the responsibility of breadwinning to men and that of
bearing children to women does not matter to them. They
would gladly take upon themselves both the "labour" of
childbearing and the "labour" of breadwinning!
In short, both men and women find it difficult to be
what God has created them to be and to do what their
specific creation entitles them to do. We are willing to
be anyone else and to do anything else! The recent case
of woman lawyer's choice to become a "man" illustrates
this wayward tendency. In order to defeat "male
dominance" in society, she paid the ultimate tribute to
men by opting for a sex reassignment surgery. The
success of the surgery is still suspect.
he Anglican Church's debate on the question of ordaining
women as bishops has brought gender-debate to the fore
once again. Those for the ordination of women candidates
talk about gender equality. They want their church to
grow out of "old-fashioned" and "biased" Biblical
teachings, which they claim were written by men from a
male-dominated society.
An arbiter in this gender war should certainly not be a
man or a woman! Both men and women cannot but be biased.
Both stand on either sides of the gender divide! A man
cannot see a woman's perspective as a woman sees it.
Neither can a woman see a man's perspective as a man
sees it. In such an impasse, those who believe in the
divine inspiration of Scriptures are at an advantage
over those who see the good Book as a set of human
writings. If the Bible is God's Word, inspired by the
Holy Spirit, then it certainly is above human biases.
The Scriptures thus help us to rise above our biases and
to understand the meaning of our lives as men or women.
In the Church, the body of Christ, both men and women
are equally precious before God. Men and women are equal
as recipients of God's grace. However, men and women are
assigned different roles. Men are called to lead and to
exercise authority. Men who refuse to lead their
Churches and families are as guilty before God as are
women who refuse to submit to such leadership.
There are Christians who cannot stand the idea of a
hierarchy in Church. Yet, the Bible is clear on this
matter. "I want you to understand that Christ is the
head of every man, and the man is the head of a woman,
and God is the head of Christ." Are men protesting
because Christ is their head? Or is Christ protesting
about the Father being His Head? Then why should women
protest about men being their head? We are all under God
and the chain of command leads to the throne of God!
The Bible teaches that God created Eve after He created
Adam. This was a deliberate divine action that supports
another biblical teaching that Eve was created for Adam
and not vice versa. The Bible's prohibition of a woman
assuming authority over men in Church is not based on
St. Paul's fancy but on the historical priority of the
creation of Adam and on Eve's initial fall into sin (1
Timothy 2:12-14). Those unwilling to submit to God's
authority and God's Word will dismiss this passage as
archaic and irrelevant to modern society.
Those who demand ordination of women as bishops point
out the failures of men as leaders. Men in leadership
have failed in the past; they might fail in the future
too. Women may be able to showcase excellent leadership.
And yet, men's failures or women's abilities are not the
factors that should decide who should lead the church.
Women's exclusion from leadership does not mean that
they are incapable or inefficient. Men are to lead
because God wants them to do so. And women submit in
order to please God. It's is God's design and purposes -
not the standards of the world - that should hold sway
in His Church.
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